Calming the Mind

Your Questions: Why Can't I Find the Perfect Partner?

(video) What a juicy question!

There are a lot of ways to play with the answer to this… one is looking at what you feel that you are missing and giving that to yourself.
Don’t feel loved enough? Then see and feel how you can you love yourself more.
Don’t feel appreciated? See and feel how you can appreciate yourself more.
The beauty of this is that the more you love and appreciate yourself the more attractive you are to others… Hello Mr. Perfect! :)
How would you answer this question right now?
Why do you feel that she hasn’t found her perfect partner?
Enjoy,
Elena
theJoyLab.net

Speaking From the Heart: Acknowledging Fear Isn't Cultivating Fear

(video)  How do we acknowledge fear with out cultivating more of it?

One way is to feel it with out thinking about it, with out going into the story of why you are feeling it.
Then it goes.
Making room for what ever is next!
Like happiness.
How do you acknowledge fear without cultivating more of it?
Enjoy,
Elena
theJoyLab.net

Speaking From the Heart: Choosing Happiness

(video) I asked myself, The Universe, My Guides to help me choose happiness… is that even possible in a world that included everything? Do I get to choose?
Are you choosing happiness right now?
Heart Fully,
Elena
theJoyLab.net

Broken to Joy: Do You Focus On Fear or Fun

(video) Many of us have a strong habit of focusing on fear… on controlling, fixing, finding fault, etc. Once we realize that we can choose to focus on fun… the first step is noticing!

Enjoy,
Elena
theJoyLab.net

Broken to Joy: The Pain Isn't Me

(video) Sometimes in the middle of turmoil it helps to remember that my thoughts and feelings are things. They are objects. That I am separate from them.

Elena
theJoyLab.net

Broken to Joy: Breaking the Habit of Thinking

(video) It just takes a bit of practice, some time…

It has been helping me the last few days to remember that when I think that I am not in my Heart, that that is just a thought and with that realization I can be in my Heart immediately. We don’t have to do anything to be ourselves, to be in our Hearts because we’re already us, we’re already Here.
What do you do to practice breaking your thinking habit?
Enjoy,
Elena
theJoyLab.net

Broken to Joy: You Aren't Really Broken

(video) Some days I have felt broken beyond repair. And still there are those moments that let me know that really, I just FEEL broken…. that deep inside I am whole.

What happens for you in those moments? What lets you know that you aren’t really broken?

Elena
theJoyLab.net