This is an excerpt from a book I’m writing about coaching meditation. I find that right away people have issues with comparison and thinking that they have to sit cross-legged on the floor to meditate… both of which are famously uncomfortable things to do! Here are some ways to play with both of those challenges…
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Where Is My Center – Mindfulness Practice
(5:22) I like to use this mindfulness practice when I am out in the world and I want to play… play with balance and play with getting calm and clear.
It is a standing practice, which makes it good fun in elevators, on escalators or standing waiting for the train or the light to change.
It can also be done sitting, which is perfect for getting calm and clear at my desk or in meetings!
Mindfulness Practice: Where Is My Center? (Standing or Sitting)
- Start by becoming present: bring your attention into the space you’re in by looking at what you can see right now.
- Close your eyes, or lower them so they are 3/4 closed, and gently shift your attention to your breathing. Notice your breath moving in and out of your body right now. Be curious about your breath. “How am I breathing right now?”
- Shift your attention to your feet and notice the natural weight of your body pressing down.
- Begin to notice if your weight is more on one foot than the other. With small, subtle movements, rock from side to side to feel where your weight is, and find the place in the middle where your weight is evenly distributed between both feet.
- Now notice the fronts and back of your feet, the balls of your toes and your heels, and notice where you weight is from front to back. With small subtle movements, rock forwards and backwards and find the place where your weight is evenly distributed front to back.
- Notice how it feels to be standing with your weight evenly distributed from side to side and front to back.
- Begin to end by shifting your attention back to your breath, noticing it moving in and out of your body.
- When you’re ready to end, open your eyes noticing the space that you’re in right now.
When your mind wanders, as it inevitably will, gently bring it back first to presence by noticing your breath and the quiet between thoughts, and then re-focus on the heart of the practice.
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How Can Sitting (Meditation) Be Easy?
Having a hard time meditating while sitting on the floor with your legs crossed? How can you make it easier?
Simple. Either don’t do it or sit for short amounts of time & build.
Remember that you can meditate in any position, so sitting isn’t necessary. You can do your ‘sitting’ practice while standing, sitting in a chair, lying down, in downward dog, etc.
If you really want to sit on the floor with your legs crossed, start sitting for an amount of time that is comfortable, like 1 or 2 or 5 minutes, do that for awhile to let your body get used to it and then add a bit more time when you feel ready.